11:04 am: Cross-Posted from Personal Journal
This post is directed at folks who think that Kit has "bent over
backwards to make
anons work" (Anonymous comment in News).
I wouldn't say that Kit has done this. In fact, Kit has had many
conversations with his team of volunteers and his wife (ME!) about how
to handle anons and complaints about it.
In the end, he decided that
as long as they continue to delete
comments when requested to, they are holding up their end of the
bargain.
Think about it: you know where the anonymous comments are being
posted, so you only have to look in a couple of places to check that
some random person is violating your privacy. If anons is suspended,
dozens of new anon comments communities will pop up and you might not
know where they all are.
People abuse the internet and have since it began. Site owners can
either be censorious (like LiveJournal) or they can have a policy that
encourages free speech.
Voltaire said, "I disapprove of what you say, but I will defend to the
death your right to say it." This is the kind of atmosphere we
(Inksome, and I believe that I have the right to talk policy since I
help Kit make decisions) are trying to create.
I've also read that people (and there are no links to evidence this
has actually happened) have had to change their phone numbers. Here's
a few things everyone can do to protect their personal information.
1) NEVER give out your real name and stuff to people you don't trust.
This means that friends-locking isn't always enough. You may have to
use a custom filter.
2) Realize that if you decide to post your personal info (including
pictures) in such a way that it can be accessed by people you don't
trust, you have taken on that risk yourself. This isn't to say that a
person taking that info and abusing it is free of guilt, but it is NOT
the same level as, say, a nurse doing this. There are no privacy
guarantees on the internet, period.
3) Let me say that again:
There are no privacy guarantees on the
internet.
Finally, please remember that Inksome is for adults. That means that
we need to recognize our rights AND our responsibilities. Think twice
before posting or commenting. The people making anon comments that
are stupid, mean, and invasive are acting like kids. They will
eventually be punished like kids. It won't be Inksome that punishes
them but remember that karma will kick their ass one day.
Don't
stoop to their level!